Is internet dating a good idea
This is a question I often ask myself while I’m huddled over my laptop browsing online dating profiles.
I can’t count how many times I have stumbled across a profile for a guy who looks truly fantastic, only to discover upon closer inspection that he lives 200 miles away in Seattle or Portland – the closest large American cities to my medium sized hometown. My girlfriends have all had similar experiences, to the point where we’ve coined the phrase, “all the good guys aren’t taken, they just live in Seattle!
Today, nine million Britons will log on to look for love.
But is this a trend that could change the very nature of romance and turn long-term commitment into a thing of the past? There is striking evidence to suggest that the web is causing social change.
Because of this, long distance dating is now less daunting than ever before and many singles are embracing it as a viable option for meeting a potential partner.
A year after a divorce she didn’t want, or expect, she was convinced she was beyond her sell-by date.
Online dating has pretty much established itself as the new mainstream way of meeting potential partners.
The beauty of online dating is that you’re no longer constrained by your immediate social circle or geography when it comes to finding love. From the last man standing at O'Houlihans Irish Pub happy hour to that cute guy working in marketing on the 7th floor, we take what's put in front of us instead of going after what we know we want and need. By qualifying your dating preferences, you both open up and constrain your possiblities at the same time. As they say, practice makes perfect and nowhere is this mantra truer than with dating. The plus side is that you got to know someone and they got to know you. More often than not in the off-line world of bars and cubicles, we limit ourselves to what's immediately available.Type the words 'dating over 50' into a search engine and scores of sites pop up.Two new ones are my Lovely Parent.com, started by a young digital entrepreneur who wants to help single people like his 60-something mum find their match, and ffifty.com, the brainchild of 50-something Charlotte Cory.'I didn’t want to meet anyone who was interested only in what I looked like, so I took the unusual step of not attaching a photograph.